One of the classic complaints I hear from would-be leaders is this: “I just wish I had someone who would come along side and do this with me.” The formula for this sentiment varies widely, but it all boils down to the same thing. The truth is we’re tired, or scared, or frustrated and we want some names on a list, some security, some support, some community already around us before we undertake the massive risks and efforts involved in really leading.
Leadership doesn’t work that way.
If you want to create anything great – a movement, a guild, a raid, a business, or even a story – you must be willing to get out there and do it even when no one else is with you. Why should anyone bother following me or partnering with me if I haven’t already proven that I have the passion and commitment to reach for this goal on my own? If we aren’t willing to write that great storyline even if no one reads it how much life can really be in it in the first place?
No the hard truth of leadership in any setting is this: Leaders start and finish their journey alone. It is in the middle places where we find our teams. Only in that singular moment of ambition expressed through action can the real alchemy of leadership begin to work. Only when people can see our vision and our abilities on display will they be willing and able to make sober judgments about whether or not to join us.
That is of course what we’re really afraid of. What if no one joins? What if they see my vision and my talent and find it lacking?
I have a better question though: What if we never try?
This is why so many people will never be leaders, never write the ‘Great American Novel,’ never see the fulfillment of that secret dream. They’re unwilling to risk rejection and loneliness for the sake of their vision. They are content to avoid failure – even at the cost of avoiding success along with it.
Are you desperately seeking a team to help fulfill your vision? Stewing on top of a storyline you just want someone else to be part of? Earnestly seeking a company of like-minded dreamers to walk with you on the road less travelled?
Then stop complaining and waiting, and just start walking. Prove to yourself, and to a world full of other timid-waiters that you have what it takes to lead the charge into that uncharted land of dreams.
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